Get With It

-It seems of late, that I’ve spent a lot of time reflecting as I look out the window of life and I truly find that a bit enjoyable.

I often wonder (even though I see several hundred hits per day on our blog) how many guys read the postings and how is their life going.

Are you, as a gay man living in the world … unhappy with your life?

I would ask you: Could you be happier, then you’ve been?

To make your life happier right now, you may would want to…

• Lose 25 pounds,
• Get a better career or form of employment,
• Connect with a boyfriend,
• See if you can make some new friends,
• Try to have more fun in your life,
• Figure out how you can work less,
• And the list could go on

Once you have some idea of what it is in life that you want, and what might make you life happier … then you can put those items in order of which will have the most benefit on your happiness today – right this very moment.

I’d say that the item that ends up being at the very tip top of your list … should be the item that will give you and benefit you the most in your quest to change your life and to gain new happiness starting today or in the very near future.

If you look at the item that is at the very top of your list, you can ask yourself this really simply question – because I’ve done this in my life.

Why in the heck, haven’t I done something about this before?

Why and I allowing these goofy obstacles that keep coming into my life day after day after day … to hold me back and hamper me from getting this item completed in my life – so I am happier?

After you’ve thought of or written down every kind of excuse that you can think of … the get up and go into the bathroom or the hallway and look in the mirror and simply ask yourself “If I had any idea without all these darn dumb doubts in my mind, that this would work out for me, what would I do to make myself happier?“

Ok…now are you ready for the big finale?

Here it is … that top item and that question you just asked yourself – are the “key” to your new life’s plan.  Simple as that.

Now get off your butt ~ and take this simple action plan and do it..and put your life into the place it should be and make yourself happier!

That’s it guys … on this Thursday morning in July … and I might add the last Thursday in July of 2009 – get moving – become happier.

Get with it!